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Paul J. Di Fabio

September 28, 1947 - June 16, 2020

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Visitation
Soller-Baker Funeral Homes & Crematory, Lafayette Chapel
400 Twyckenham Blvd
Lafayette, IN 47909
Friday 6/26, 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

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Service
St. Mary Cathedral
1207 Columbia St
Lafayette, IN 47901
Saturday 6/27, 10:30 am

Paul J. Di Fabio, 72, of Lafayette, passed away on Tuesday, June 16, 2020 in his home.  He was born September 28, 1947, in Plainfield, NJ to the late Olindo and Helen Duggan Di Fabio. Paul spent his childhood years in Kansas City, MO.   The family moved to West Lafayette in 1967 and Paul graduated from West Lafayette High School that same year. Paul enlisted in the Navy and served on the Kennedy aircraft carrier.  He was honorably discharged in 1973.  He attended Purdue University studying Mass Communication. Paul’s career was always sales related, and he used that career to meet as many new people as possible. He is survived by his wife of 24 years, Lynne.
Paul had a talent for connecting people who needed something with a person who could help them. He was a “friend collector” who developed and maintained friendships with people from throughout his life.  Paul communicated with school friends, Navy buddies, and friends world-wide.  Everyone he met has a “Paul story”!  Paul felt most at home while cooking and entertaining for friends and family.

In addition to his wife, Lynne, he is survived by his children Tim (Carla Hanafee) Schluttenhofer, Andrew (Kylie) Orbin, Scott Orbin, Megan Orbin and granddaughter, Addelynne Orbin, his in-laws Albert “Buster” and Helen Garing,  Brothers  Robert “Murph” (Carole), William “Willie” (Susan), Mark (Barbara), Peter (Laura), Vincent “Vinnie” (Jannie), Christopher “Chris”, Sister, Lisa (Jim) Lahrman and sisters-in-law, Robin Kelly and Rebecca (Becky) Di Fabio. Paul had many nieces and nephews and grand nieces and nephews, who were all very dear to him.
Paul was preceded in death by his parents and siblings, Helen Kelly,  Austin Kelly and Philip “Flip” Di Fabio.
Visitation will begin with the rosary at 4:45 p.m. and end at 8:00 p.m. on Friday, June 26 at Soller-Baker Funeral Home  400 Twyckenham Blvd., Lafayette.  A funeral mass will be held on Saturday, June 27 at 10:30 a.m., St. Mary Cathedral, 1207 Columbia Street, Lafayette, Fr. Robert Williams officiating.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the Lynne L. & Paul J. Di Fabio Endowment benefitting the Lafayette community. To donate visit http://cfglaf.org and be sure to mention Paul’s name.
You may sign the guest book and leave memories at www.soller-baker.com

 

 

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Soller-Baker Funeral Homes & Crematory, Lafayette Chapel
400 Twyckenham Blvd
Lafayette, IN 47909
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Friday 6/26, 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm
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St. Mary Cathedral
1207 Columbia St
Lafayette, IN 47901
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Saturday 6/27, 10:30 am

Paul J. Di Fabio, 72, of Lafayette, passed away on Tuesday, June 16, 2020 in his home.  He was born September 28, 1947, in Plainfield, NJ to the late Olindo and Helen Duggan Di Fabio. Paul spent his childhood years in Kansas City, MO.   The family moved to West Lafayette in 1967 and PaulContinue Reading

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Margie Moreen Largura left a message on July 11, 2020:
Rest In Peace Paul. Thanks for making high school so fun. ???❤️
Carrie Krekeler left a message on June 29, 2020:
I am sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.
Dilana Wick McFadden left a message on June 27, 2020:
Lynn, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!! We love you!! Fly high Paul, you are so loved and will be missed!!!!!
Steve and Helen James left a message on June 27, 2020:
May God hold you all close. You are in our thoughts.
Jack and Cheryl Mumma left a message on June 26, 2020:
Paul always was so positive and had a joke for you. I'm blessed to have know Paul for the past 35years. Give them heck in Heaven.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Cindi Hartman left a message on June 26, 2020:
In memory of Paul J. Di Fabio, Cindi Hartman lit a candle
Tom Gripe left a message on June 26, 2020:
Lynn, I am so sorry for your loss. Gail and I will keep you in our prayers. Please share our sympathy with your family. I will never forget Paul's bright spirit and warm smile. Hope you are well. Talk with you soon. Tom and Gail Gripe
Nicole Evans-Greek left a message on June 26, 2020:
He will always burn bright in our hearts
Katie (Lamb) and Steve Hickner left a message on June 26, 2020:
In memory of Paul J. Di Fabio, Katie (Lamb) and Steve Hickner lit a candle
Curt Isenbarger left a message on June 26, 2020:
Paul was a friend of my grandfather who passed away over 20 years ago. It was nice hearing stories about my own family through Paul who obviously seemed to have such a positive impact on the many people around him. Thinking of you at this time, Lynne.
Celine Withers left a message on June 26, 2020:
Lynne and family, Prayers and blessings for all of you during this difficult time.
Terri Leffew left a message on June 26, 2020:
Sending prayers and hugs to the family, especially Lynne.
Joyce left a message on June 26, 2020:
In memory of Paul J. Di Fabio, Joyce lit a candle
Kelly Snider left a message on June 26, 2020:
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Susan Arndt left a message on June 26, 2020:
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Robert Morehouse left a message on June 26, 2020:
What a Great Friend that will be missed greatly. Great Man also. Prayers for family and friends
Susan Chapman left a message on June 25, 2020:
Lisa, I'm sorry to hear of your brother's death. Prayers for you and your family.
Kate Nail left a message on June 25, 2020:
Just want to send my condolences to the entire family in the loss of Paul. The Di Fabio family is such a close and fun group. The loss of yet another member is hard on all of you. Thinking of you and sending healing thoughts. Kate Nail
Steven Neff and Marla Neff left a message on June 24, 2020:
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Aadron left a message on June 24, 2020:
There are some people who come into our lives and move on. There are others who leave memories that last a lifetime. Paul will be forever remembered for touching lives and leaving a little part of himself with all those he touched. Lynne (HRH), my heart is with you and the family. May the memories of Paul bring you all a little peace today and a lifetime of stories for your tomorrows.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
John and Lori Lehe left a message on June 23, 2020:
We will miss you Paul! Our fond memories of you are filled with the spirit of your warm heart, sense of humor and great cooking! John and Lori
Bill Compton left a message on June 23, 2020:
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Candace Fitzgerald left a message on June 23, 2020:
In memory of Paul J. Di Fabio, Candace Fitzgerald lit a candle
cathy davis left a message on June 23, 2020:
Chris So sorry for the loss of your brother. Prayers for you and your family. Cathy Davis
Dan Brunner left a message on June 23, 2020:
In memory of Paul J. Di Fabio, Dan Brunner lit a candle
Sharon and Paul Allman left a message on June 22, 2020:
Our hearts are heavy. Paul was so dear to us, as are Lynne and Megan. Paul brought us together to enjoy friendship and share laughter over the years, and we loved him like a brother. Please know our thoughts are with you all, and wish with all of our hearts we could be there in person for Paul's celebration of life.
Iskra Mathura left a message on June 22, 2020:
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Megan left a message on June 22, 2020:
In memory of Paul J. Di Fabio, Megan lit a candle
Pamela Neal left a message on June 22, 2020:
Sorry for the loss in the family!
ShAron Hoey Fueger left a message on June 22, 2020:
Lynn I am so sorry to hear about Paul. I went to school with him the class reunions with Lisa and Jim and Paul. I have moved to FL but keep up with Lisa all the time. Love Sharon67
Cathy (Henkel Anderson) Lyngen left a message on June 22, 2020:
Lynne - I am so sorry to see this. Paul was a great guy. I still remember the time we came over and Paul cooked for us. Praying for peace and comfort for you. Love, Cathy (from the Arnett HR days)
Lisa left a message on June 22, 2020:
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace Paul?
Soller-Baker Funeral Homes, Inc. left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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