Shannon Sue Withers

September 2, 1964 - December 11, 2024

Facebook

Soller-Baker Funeral Homes & Crematory, Lafayette Chapel

400 Twyckenham Blvd

Lafayette, IN 47909

Monday 12/16, 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Soller-Baker Funeral Homes & Crematory, Lafayette Chapel

400 Twyckenham Blvd

Lafayette, IN 47909

Tuesday 12/17, 10:00 am

Shannon Sue (Graves) Withers, 60, of Lafayette, passed away on Wednesday, December 11, 2024 at her home with her husband John by her side.

She was born September 2, 1964, in Lafayette, IN, to Richard and the late Betty (Strong) Graves.

Shannon graduated from Lafayette Jefferson High School, class of 1982 and attended Purdue University.

On March 19, 1988, she married John Withers in Lafayette and he survives.

Shannon retired from the Tippecanoe County Recorder’s Office after serving 25 years with the county in the Auditors Office, Treasurers Office and the Recorders Office. She was elected to two terms as County Recorder.

Shannon was a member of the Christian Reformed Church where she served as a deacon and was a Sunday School teacher. She served on the Advisory Board of the Heartford House Child Advocacy Center. She was a member of Tippecanoe County Republican Women’s Club and was voted Tippecanoe County Republican Club “Women of the Year” in 2018.

Shannon loved spending time around the pool with family and loved hosting parties at the house. She was known for her freshly baked cookies. She also enjoyed her home in Florida and riding around on the golf cart.

Surviving is her father, Richard Graves of Lafayette, husband, John Withers of Lafayette, children, Brandon (Tonia) Withers of Lafayette, Kyle (Brandy) Withers of Brookston, Lauren (Ryan) Luttrull of Zionsville, and Ryan (Sarah) Withers of West Point. Also surviving are eight grandchildren, Landon, Carter, Kayleigh, Dex, Ross, Marshall, Everly and Rosalie. Shannon has two brothers, Richard (Kathi) Graves II of Pittsboro, and Dennis W. (Theresa) Graves of Lafayette, and a sister, Stefanie K. (Chris) Black of Lafayette.

Visitation will be from 5:00 pm to 8:00 pm on Monday, December 16th at Soller-Baker Lafayette Chapel, 400 Twyckenham Blvd. Lafayette, IN 47909. The funeral service will be held at 10:00 am on Tuesday, December 17, 2024 also at Soller-Baker Lafayette Chapel with Rev. Chris Black officiating. Entombment will follow at Tippecanoe Memory Gardens in West Lafayette.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made in Shannon’s name to IU Cancer Center

Soller-Baker Funeral Homes, Inc.

Karen Ostergren

Karen Denburger

Brooke Anderson

Dona Benham

Robert & Janice Swider

Janie Roberts

Holly Landrum

Mike Bush

Timothy Goodrich

Lori Olsen & Michelle Stowers

Lisa Manning

Soller-Baker Funeral Homes & Crematory, Lafayette Chapel

400 Twyckenham Blvd

Lafayette, IN 47909

Map

Monday 12/16, 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Send Flowers & Gifts

Soller-Baker Funeral Homes & Crematory, Lafayette Chapel

400 Twyckenham Blvd

Lafayette, IN 47909

Map

Tuesday 12/17, 10:00 am

Send Flowers & Gifts

Shannon Sue (Graves) Withers, 60, of Lafayette, passed away on Wednesday, December 11, 2024 at her home with her husband John by her side. She was born September 2, 1964, in Lafayette, IN, to Richard and the late Betty (Strong) Graves. Shannon graduated from Lafayette Jefferson High School, class of 1982 and attended Purdue University.Continue Reading

See Condolences

A great loss.

In memory of Shannon Sue Withers, Karen Ostergren lit a candle

In memory of Shannon Sue Withers, Karen Denburger lit a candle

I only worked with Shannon a few years but she was always willing to help and always had a smile on. What a sweet and caring lady. She will be missed by all that knew her. My prayers to her family.

RIP Shannon. You gave it one heck of a fight. Such a wonderful person inside and out. To John and the whole family, cherish those beautiful memories. My sympathy to everyone.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I went to high school with Shannon and then had the pleasure of working with her in County Government. She was hands down one of the sweetest women I have ever met. I will think of her often. My prayers for the family at this difficult time.

The O’Shields and Anderson family are thinking of you all at this time.

In memory of Shannon Sue Withers, Dona Benham lit a candle

In memory of Shannon Sue Withers, Robert & Janice Swider lit a candle

Condolences to family.

Uncle Dick and Family prayers of peace and comfort for all of you. Sincerely, Gary

Our sympathy to John, and her families, such a sad loss. Although I never met Shannon, our friendship with John has been wonderful, and I am certain She'd have made a fine guest here too. Hugs to you all!

Thank you for sharing Shannon with us. She was one of the very best and I feel so fortunate to have known her.

Many prayers and much love to the family. Shannon always had a smile and something nice to say to anyone. God gained a special lady. God's blessings to the Withers-Graves family.

I met Shannon in the pool at Brookside. Such a lovely lady. I really enjoyed her. Cathy Allman (Nellie Neal’s sister)

My deepest condolences to the Withers and Graves families. Shannon was a good friend in high-school and we always enjoyed catching up whenever we ran into eachother. She will be missed by many.

In memory of Shannon Sue Withers, Mike Bush lit a candle

John, I am so sorry for your loss. Continued prayers and huge hugs. Praying for comfort and peace. Thank God we know we will see her again! She will be missed by many.

So sad. I remember Shannon as a very sweet, nice person

Michelle and I are so very sorry for your families loss. May God give you and your family comfort in this difficult time.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I am so sorry for your loss! She was a great example of a Christian woman, wife, Mom, Grandma & more! Her enthusiasm for life & spirit of positivity was admirable & contagious! Rest In Peace my friend!

There are no words to convey how deeply sorry I am for John and Shannon’s entire family. Memories are a powerful tool; hang on to every one of them.

Sending prayers to the Graves family.

So very sorry for your loss.

In memory of Shannon Sue Withers, Bruce Oakley lit a candle

Sending love & prayers to all the families. So many great memories of the Strong, Ross & Graves families getting together for Christmas, reunions, parties and baseball games . Shannon was a highlight in all of it. Shannon endured so much, but never saw her without a smile on her face and her positive attitude spreading. Love you cousin & will miss you the rest of my life. Connie Strong Corbett

We remember Shannon fondly from high school and several encounters in decades since. She was always a pleasure to see. Our deepest condolences are with the family.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.