I&m sorry to hear about your sister. If you need anything PLEASE let me or aunt Mary or Uncle Jack know. My prayers are with you both.
I only meet Pam a few times, but I know Mike and the children. My heart goes out to each and everyone of you, and I am so sorry for your loss. I feel like sharing a letter my sister wrote my mother. I thought I would share it with you and hope it will give peace to you in this difficult time.
Dear Mom (Pam),
You began your journey called life in God&s hands. He gave you to mother earth because a plan to your path had been created. When you were born, you were born special. Because of this you were given the will to survive and fight for your life when obstacles were set forth. We all are learning our purpose in this world, but without you we would no exist and so our life offerings would not be. For this my love of God runs deep, and you are an extecsion of him. No one is perfect and if we were where would the joy be. It is the imperfections we learn about each other that keeps love strong and unconditional. This is our joy, for we rejoice in each other. You have created more circles of life through your children and future grandchildren, and they too started in God&s hands. Your children are your legacy and they keep your spirit alive because they carry it within them daily. When I think of myself and what i have become you are all that I see. With your grandchildren new generations are made and through this you will stay alive in their hearts. When it is Gpd&s will you will be called from what has been your home, but remmber you will continue to live in his home, for it is made with streets of gold. With this your physical life is complete, but your spirit and legacy will stand strong. We take this gift of strength and will do you proud by continuing in our jorney. Look closely for this is your ""Circle of Life"". From God&s hands, to yours, to ours, and to theirs we are of one and joined forever. The circle of life is a long path, but one day God will call us all home and only then will we come full circle.
Love your children, Michael, Mackenzie, and Hayden
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in these times of need.
Time heals all wounds and so does prayer. Thinking of you all!
Jeff, Crystal(Brenda&s niece), Stephanie, and Rebecca