Debra L. Charlesworth

January 21, 1966 - February 6, 2021

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Lafayette, IN 47909

Wednesday 2/10, 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Debra Lynn Charlesworth, 55, of Lafayette, took her journey to heaven on Saturday, February 6, 2021.

Debbie was born January 21, 1966, in Lafayette, Indiana to the late Judith Charlesworth and Robert Cain.

Debbie graduated from Benton Central High School in 1984 and was a longtime active member of FFA. Debbie enjoyed so much of life; a few of her favorite things were hairdressing, cheerleading, sunbathing, baking sweets, eating brownie mix, dancing to Celine Dion while cleaning, helping others, laughing hysterically, spending time with her siblings and friends, and lighting up every room she entered.

She loved the sunshine, and she reflected it for so many. She followed in her mother’s footsteps of generosity and was willing to give – even to strangers. However, nobody was a stranger to Debbie. She always found ways to help the people around her have a better day by putting a smile on their face.

At the absolute center of Debbie’s life were her three children: Blake, Brady, and Ashlyn. Her world revolved around being a mother, and she was a wonderful one. From talking every single day and wholeheartedly supporting their endeavors to being their best friend, she was a one-of-a-kind mom. Debbie was incredibly proud of the families her children are creating and the life partners they chose. She was blessed with three grandchildren and her final gift was the news of three more granddaughters on the way.

Surviving her are her children Blake Anthony (Jenna) Balensiefer of Lafayette, Indiana, Brady Michael (Kellyn) Balensiefer of Derby, Kansas, Ashlyn Renee (Andi) Marban of Houston, Texas, her grandchildren Raina Nicole, Dawson Anthony, Emersyn Lynn, and three more grandchildren to be born in June.

Also surviving is her father Robert Cain of Lafayette and all 11 of her siblings: Mike (Julie) Charlesworth of Otterbein, Sheri (Charlie) Horwedel of Otterbein, Jennifer (Joe) Gutwein of Lebanon, Terri (Jim) Charlesworth of Portland, Vicki (Gary) Sims of Boswell, Brenda Charlesworth of Otterbein, Jon Charlesworth of Otterbein, Hali Charlesworth, Carolyn Charlesworth, Robbie Charlesworth, and Jordan Charlesworth. She is also survived by her cherished nieces and nephews.

Debbie was preceded in death by her parents Judith and Ronald Charlesworth.

A celebration of Debbie’s life will be held from 5 to 7pm on Wednesday, February 10 at Soller-Baker Lafayette Chapel, 400 Twyckenham Blvd. Lafayette, IN 47909.

Memorial contributions may be made in her honor to the National Ataxia Foundation. www.ataxia.org/donate/

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Debra Lynn Charlesworth, 55, of Lafayette, took her journey to heaven on Saturday, February 6, 2021. Debbie was born January 21, 1966, in Lafayette, Indiana to the late Judith Charlesworth and Robert Cain. Debbie graduated from Benton Central High School in 1984 and was a longtime active member of FFA. Debbie enjoyed so much ofContinue Reading

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Deb was such a pleasure to care for when I did. She was always determined to do all that she could with everything within her. We shared the same belief in God and I’m so happy to know that she’s in heaven because of asking Christ into her life and giving her Life to God! It was never any secret how much she loved all three of her kids, for she bragged on them every time I saw her! Her same prayers that she shared with me was that they would come to know Christ as she had. I miss her fun-loving personality and her determination to live her life out as best she could. She fought a great fight! ♥️

So sorry to hear this, . I havent seen deb in years but I have alot of childhood memories with deb and her siblings when they lived on green st. Sending prayers to them all?

In memory of Debra L. Charlesworth, Yvonne Kumpfmiller lit a candle

Debbie if you cannot be here with those that love you I know they can find peace in that you are in heaven with our Lord dancing up a storm and making all the angels laugh! Keep watching over everyone from heaven, we will be looking for little signs that I believe you will be sending!!

A beautiful soul got her wings this week. Good bye Debbie. you'll be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you. Our loss is certainly Heaven's gain.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Have fond memories with the Charlesworth family when they were all little and our kids were also. Sorry for your loss of your sister, Deb.

Debbie, thank you for the joy and laughter you brought me. Thank you for the beautiful daughter you raised and for welcoming Andi into your life. Just a reminder though. If there are birdhouses in heaven, don’t move them. Love you lady, Anita

Remembering Debbie’s sweet nature, big smile, and great childhood memories with cousins. She was truly a bright light and joy to be around!

Debbie was such a great friend and will be dearly missed. She babysat my daughter when I was a new mother myself. She was so funny, silly, and so full of life never a dull moment with her around. I'm glad I got the privilege of knowing her having her as a great friend and being able to make a ton of memmories with her I want to send my deepest condolences to her children Ashlyn Andi Brady and Blake and their wives and children and all of the sisters brothers nieces and nephews I'm sorry for your loss I live you Debbie and will miss you until we meet again ❤ Michelle

Oh Debbie how I miss you. You were a great friend. Funny,silly,and always the life of the party. I have so

Sending prayers to your family. We have fond and FUN memories with your sweet mom.

My dearest cousin who was like a best friend and sister to me... She made me laugh harder than anyone. We lifted each other up through some rough patches in each other’s lives. I knew I could always be my crazy self around Debs. We loved Steve Martin and we would say we were “ 2 wild and crazy gals!” ? We listened to Bohemian Rhapsody (always on the FM radio) and do an opera play.. and sooo many memories and not enough room to share them all. She sent me flowers 3 years in a row for my birthday during a difficult time in my life. We were exactly 30 days apart in age. She cared for everyone more than herself. So full of life and laughter! She rarely complained when she got sick. She was such a joy in my life.... I will miss knowing she was only about an hour away from me. My heart and prayers go out to Ashlyn and Andi, Blake and Brady and thier wives. She was so excited about having 3 more grandys and I know she will be looking over all of her family ( and her siblings and nieces and nephews and her Aunt Janet) from Heaven ❤️ I love you all!! There is a void in my heart right now... but I know I will see her again! Much love to all of you!!! ?Your Cousin Amy

Debbie We believe that God has a very special place for you ! We will miss you Love ; Aunt Marcia and Uncle Robby

You always had a smile on your face , no matter the situation you pointed out the positive things . No more suffering or pain , now you can jump and bounce like you did in school . RIP my friend

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Debbie's family. We are very sorry for your loss.

Thoughts and Prayers of peace and comfort for all of Debbie’s Family. While it saddens me to hear of Debbie’s passing, there’s comfort in knowing she is now free in Heaven. Many good memories of our much younger years and the times we reconnected in our later lives. Debbie truly was one that made you smile and had a heart of gold. Sincerely, Wanda

RIP Debbie. I cherish the fun memories of our childhood.

I was a classmate of Debbie’s. She was one of the nicest people. Always had a smile on her face. Condolences to all of her family.

To Debbie, you will be in our hearts always and your vibrancy for fun and family will be carried on for generations. To your family we say thank you, thank you for sharing such a warm and kind hearted person with all of us. To the Lord God Almighty, we love You, and know that You have prepared a place for Debbie, since the beginning of time you knew her, and are now even holding her in Your loving arms. Thank you Father, that You have prepared a place for those that love you, and that one day we will again embrace Debbie and even dance together with celebration in Your presence. Respectfully, Don and Lori Allgood

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Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I only had the pleasure of meeting Debbie once at Ashlyn and Andi’s wedding, but she left a lasting imprint on my life that day. She had the most beautiful smile and it was clear that she lived a life full of love for her family. I would like to extend my sincerest condolences to all of the family and friends of Debbie. I know she will be missed dearly.

What a beautiful lady inside and out. I had the privilege of taking Debbie to a couple of National FFA trips that allowed me to get to know her well. She always put others first. The last time I talked to her, she was still helping others by serving coffee, hot chocolate to those of us working on a Habitat for Humanity house. She will be missed by me and a lot others. Condolences to family and friends.

Debbie was one of the nicest people I had ever met and a wonderful classmate. I don’t recall ever seeing her where she wasn’t smiling. She always had such a pleasant personality. Debbie will be truly missed by all her Classmates from the1984 Graduating Class.

Prayers for the family.

Rest in Peace. My condolences to the whole family.

I went to school with many of Debbie's siblings or sibling in laws, I did not know her personally but she seemed to be a great person just like the rest of the Charlesworth clan. I am so sorry for your loss, prayers for the family during this time of grief.

I graduated from Benton Central with Debbie beautiful lady ???

Debbie, you are in God’s hands now, I love you so much, as you have always been like my daughter & you will always remain in my heart. I will miss you so much, Rest In Peace sweetheart??❤️❤️❤️

R.I.P. my friend

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